Rewind to August 9th to August 15th.
We'd been going, going, going all summer (all year?!). We'd had very little family-time.
We still did not have a place to move to, even though the first day of school was fast approaching.
We needed a break from all the crazy driving back and forth to the Bay Area.
That break came in the form of an amazing act of kindness and generosity from strangers (friends of friends whom we'd never met) who offered to let us stay at their home in Oakland for a week while they were on vacation in Santa Cruz.
A whole week!
That week gave us the gift of time. Time to look at houses at our leisure. Time for Steve to still be home in the mornings when we woke up
and to be home again in time for dinner. Time for me to spend with the boys doing fun summer-like things before school started up again. Even time to celebrate some birthdays. All in a terrific house with a bedroom for everyone, a playroom, and a backyard.
Below are some highlights of our Oakland Staycation.
1. Adventure Playground in Berkeley - the boys' new favorite spot. At this very unique park, kids get to build the playground with real hammers, nails, saws, wood, and paint. Every couple of hours, the staff takes it all apart again and the next set of kids get to build whatever they want. So cool. Plus, there's a zip line! And it's just steps away from a beach area of the Berkeley Marina.
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Climbing up to the top of a rope ladder |
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Tucking inside this tube and then rolling down the hill |
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Cutting wood with a real saw is super fun - but it's hard work! |
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Does this look familiar? Skipping rocks in the water soon becomes... |
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Soaking wet for the car ride home! |
2. A trip across the bridge to San Francisco. The boys and I finally got see where Steve works and take him to lunch at the Embarcadero. We are proud of him!
3. Celebrating Steve's 38th Birthday. Steve's birthday fell right in the middle of our staycation. After visiting a church that morning, we packed a picnic and headed to Joaquin Miller Park in the Oakland hills for some hiking and exploring. Later that night we had some friends over for dessert.
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Celebrating your birthday with three wild and crazy boys can be, well, exasperating! |
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All good hikers need a walking stick or two. |
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If only we were alone on this hike! |
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A pretty amazing view of the Bay from the hills of Oakland |
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Jonah caught a lizard and quickly became very attached to "Speedy" |
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Saying good-bye to Speedy when it was time to go home was serious business |
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Steve didn't want any gifts for his birthday but he really wanted a chocolate cake. It took me a bit of time and effort to find this one, but it was well worth it! Scrumptious cake from La Farine. |
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A few of our special friends who live in Oakland came over to help us celebrate. Susannah brought an apple pie that her mom made with apples from Sus and Matt's apple tree - yum! |
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Happy Birthday Steve! |
4. Summer Orientation at Urban Montessori Charter School. Our Oakland Staycation partially coincided with Summer Orientation Week at the boys' new school, as well as a Family Work Day at the School. Had we not been given a place to stay in Oakland that week, we wouldn't have gone to either. What an added blessing of that week! It was so nice for the boys to be able to tour the school, meet the teachers, learn the Montessori methods, and even make a few friends before we even moved.
5. The Oakland Zoo. One afternoon when the boys got out of Summer Orientation, we headed to the Oakland Zoo. My friend Nancy shared her membership passes with us so we got in free! It's such a nice zoo. We hadn't been there in a few years so it was all new for the boys. We had a great time.



6. My 38th Birthday. Since we drove back to Sacramento on my actual birthday, Nancy, Amy, and Susannah took me out to dinner the night before. It was a terrific end to our Staycation, and a great introduction to our new life in Oakland. I learned several things that night. First, I learned that it's freezing in Oakland at night - even in August. The days of wearing a skirt out to dinner are long gone. Thank goodness Amy had a pair of leggings for me to slip on. Second, I learned that I'm gonna need a new wardrobe. I don't even own leggings. Plus, nothing in my closet can be classified as urban or hip. Third, I learned that I need to bring a dictionary when I go out to eat. I didn't know what half of the things were on the menu. But, I loved them all! Pizziaolo = delish!
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Lots of years of history around this table made for much laughter and joy |
7. Finding a place to LIVE! Just hours before driving back home to Sacramento, on my birthday, we found a home to rent. We found it on craigslist that morning and within no time flat we were over there looking at it. We knew right away that it was our house. All the searching was finally over.
Thank you Millheim family for welcoming us into your home while you were away. May we be that hospitable and generous with our home when others are in need!
(*Staycation for Jonah, Nicolas, Riley, and I. Steve worked, but much had a much shorter commute!)